Children Must Come with Warning Labels Toward Your Relationship

Always full-time full-time lovers never full-time full-time parents. Statement must rain in your head like crazy. You can't fall into the trap of being full- time parents. You have to stay the course and fight that spirit that says you must give all to the child. You must remain full-time lovers. You have to fight it. You have to make it a priority to be full-time lovers. I know the child needs you, but your husband or wife needs you more. Yes, I said it. We can admit that we will never hold down the lover part consistently, and now and then put being the parent into the mix. Usually, what takes priority is being a full-time parent. If you want to be GREAT parents who raise secure kids, then you need to put your kids more than each other.

T. Charles Brantley Ph.D is chief counselor at Strong Marriages. He has earned a double Doctorate and Master Degrees from Newburgh Theological Seminary. He has an Accredited Board Certified Pastoral Counselor and Diploma in Biblical Counseling from American Association of Christian Counselors. In addition, he has authored 22 national published books titles including: "Married Couples: Thou Shalt Have Great Sex", "New Sheets: Hot Passionate Undefiled Married Sex" and "Return To The Garden Of Eden". He is a radio and TV personality in the North East.