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Discover The Answers To Your Dating Anguish!

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>Love and Relationships A Faith Based Approach book discussion Each chapter from DATE SMART: Practical Biblical Dating Lessons for all the Single Ladies
Every 4th Saturday from 7pm-10pm
Grand Prairie, TX 75054

(817) 475-5825

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Workbook/study guide video series: Answers to workbook


Video My Testimony Chapter 1 Now That I've Got Your Attention

My Testimony Chapter 1 Now That I've Got Your Attention!


Video My Testimony Chapter 2 My Testimony

My Testimony Chapter 2 My Testimony


Video My Testimony Chapter 3 Healing

part 1 0f 2 My Testimony Chapter 3 Healing
part 2 0f 2 My Testimony Chapter 3 Healing

Video My Testimony Chapter 4 The Problems

My Testimony Chapter 4 The Problem


Video My Testimony Chapter 5 What I Learned From Each Relationship

My Testimony Chapter 5 What I learned From Each Relationship


Video My Testimony Chapter 6 My Frustrations

My Testimony Chapter 6 My Frustrations


Video My Testimony Chapter 7 What Are Boundaries

My Testimony Chapter 7 What Are Boundaries


Video My Testimony Chapter 8 My Lack Of Boundaries

My Testimony Chapter 8 My Lack Of Boundaries


Video My Testimony Chapter 9 The Change In Me

My Testimony Chapter 9 The Change In Me


Video My Testimony Chapter 10 What Lesson Is GOD Trying To Teach You?

My Testimony Chapter 10 What Lesson Is God Trying To Teach You?


Video My Testimony Chapter 11 What Three Things Do You Need In A Man?

My Testimony Chapter 11What Three Things Do You Need In A Man?


Video My Testimony Chapter 12 Resist The Devil And He Will Flee

My Testimony Chapter 12 Resist The Devil And He Will Flee


Video My Testimony Chapter 13 What Does A Man Of GOD Look Like?

My Testimony Chapter 13 What Does A Man Of GOD Look Like


Video My Testimony Chapter 14 Not Guilty

My Testimony Chapter 14 Not Guilty


Video My Testimony Chapter 15 A Lesson On Competition

My Testimony Chapter 15 A Lesson On Competition


Video My Testimony Chapter 16 To Be Treated Like A Lady, Act Like One

My Testimony Chapter 16 To Be Treated Like A Lady, Act Like One


Video My Testimony Chapter 17 Solitude

My Testimony Chapter 17 Solitude


Video My Testimony Chapter 18 Peace

My Testimony Chapter 18 Peace


Video My Testimony Chapter 19 Accepting Christ As Your Savior

My Testimony Chapter 19 Accepting Christ As Your Savior


Video My Testimony Chapter 20 The Prodigal Daughter

My Testimony Chapter 20 The Prodigal Daughter




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MONTHLY HIGHLIGHTS Not only does the man choose the woman, but anytime a woman chases a man, he runs. Genesis 39:6b–13 says, Now Joseph was well-built and handsome, and after a while his master’s wife took notice of Joseph and said, “Come to bed with me!” But he refused. “With me in charge,” he told her, “my master does not concern himself with anything in the house; everything he owns he has entrusted to my care. No one is greater in this house than I am. My master withheld nothing from me except you, because you are his wife. How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?” And though she spoke to Joseph day after day, he refused to go to bed with her or even be with her. One day he went into the house to attend to his duties, and none of the household servants were inside. She caught him by his cloak and said, “Come to bed with me!” But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the house.” .

We see here Pharaoh’s wife offered herself to Joseph. She chased after him. When a woman chases a man, he runs. God never intended for women to chase men. Now, a man may sleep with you since you are offering, but since you were not his choice, you will be forever chasing him. He will be with you because of what you are giving him. But as soon as the gifts are gone or he has had enough of you or someone else catches his eye, he is gone
My Testimony

Book Review.....

Literature for the Soul: My Testimony Book Review - By LURINA WILLIAMS The Dallas Examiner My Testimony is a healing book to read with a deep message. In this book, Arquila Todd discusses how God used the pain in her dating relationships to get her attention and return her to Him. Throughout that process, Todd received a testimony and wrote about it to share her experiences in that journey with women and young adults. It took me a while to read the entire book because the messages I received on some of the issues she wrote about and the lessons to be learned in those situations were in some way applicable to me or others I knew. I had to take a few hours or sometimes a day to reflect on some of the things I read. Not only was it informative, positive, spiritual and uplifting, but it was very motivating as well. It made me do some reflecting and soul searching about the relationships and friendships in my life. This book really iterates the importance of the presence of God in our life and at the forefront of our relationships. Many times without realizing, we make our significant others, friends or even family members the main focus of our lives, our first priority. We make our schedules and correlate our daily activities around these people. We put others first. Many people are guilty of this. You know as well as I know if you believe the Lord is your Savior, that our God is a jealous God. So once distracted, He brings pain and chaos into our relationships so we have no choice but to turn to Him. This is His way of reminding us of things we forget like honoring the Lord, loving and respecting our selves, and obeying His word. With Arquila, it took several failed relationships for her to see what was really going on. Once she figured it out, she took different approaches to her relationships and made God her main focus and priority always. Everything turned around and she was and is able to live a happy life with healthy relationships. She uses Bible scriptures to recap her teachings of the lessons learned and evidence of her Lord helping her to come back to the right path. I recommend this book to all strong God-fearing women, young adults and even teenagers who have been a part of failed relationships or friendships. This book will definitely leave you thinking and reflecting on past and present relationships you have endured, and hopefully will help to make sense of why certain things happened or why they failed. I give this book a score of four out of a five.