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WE MADE IT!!!!!!!

The eldest of two children, LaShawn was born in Berkeley, CA. At the age of 9 LaShawn was forced to take on many adult roles including taking care of her younger brother. While bearing this responsibility throughout her teen years, LaShawn faced an adversity all too common to young women, she was raped. Armed with the anger, rejection, fear and abandonment that accompany this traumatic experience, LaShawn began to navigate the route of emotional despair and dysfunction. Living what appeared to be a normal life aesthetically; internally she was dying emotionally every day. This internal turmoil soon manifested itself physically through ulcers which threatened LaShawn’s life. In her book she chronicles these events and attests that one can confront negative experiences and transform them into motivations for success. As you embark on this expedition through her life you’ll realize that the same elements of humanity exist in all of us. The residue of lost love, the sting of deep wounds and the joy of triumph will link us all together thereby solidifying our unified express purpose, to enjoy life. The divergence occurs in the paths we take to get there. LaShawn’s path will motivate you to employ diligence, faith and fortitude.

"The population of unwed mothers has dramatically increased over the last several years. It’s unfortunate, but it’s our reality. Single motherhood should never be encouraged. Every child needs a mother and a father in the home, with marriage being preferred. However, if you are a single mother, regardless of the reason, do not lose hope and do not give up. Being a single mother can be challenging; whether it’s financially, emotionally, morally, etc. I would like to encourage you to stay faithful. Being a single parent was very hard for me at times; especially when I was alone and was forced to see the situation in its rawest form.The Lord will always send help, always. You’re never alone. No matter what life may bring, keep the faith and do what’s best for your child(ren). Children are a gift from above, do not mistreat them. Love them unconditionally, at all times. Discipline them when necessary, but do not abuse them. When you recognize their God given gifts and talents, cultivate those abilities and help your child (ren) implement them. Encourage them to exercise their gifts and talents. If you’re challenged financially, place them in a free or price reduced program that offers classes and/or training. Show them that you care and that you are interested in everything that concerns them.